As some of you might know, for reasons best left un-talked about, I am a single mother now. People keep asking me if it has made any difference to my life. While I agree that it does affect my life logistically as a single mother, but otherwise, it’s just another day in the mental household.
So please, stop with the irritating questions already. I do not have the time or the patience to explain my life decisions to you or yours.
Everything is easier without the added tension of dealing with your decision making with another adult. So if you’re genuinely concerned, ask me if you can help in any way. If not, just sit back and keep your judgy fingers to yourself, thankyouverymuch.
This is for you, my darling. You will understand someday when you’re all grown up why I needed to do this. You will know that this is for the better. Your peace and your mental health are of the utmost importance to me and that is primarily the reason why I did what I did. I hope some day we sit down together and talk about this, but until then, I promise – I will do whatever it takes to make your life only better from now on.